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Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (Paperback)

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A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.

One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.

Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.

About the Author

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Fluent in nine languages, she helms a therapy practice in New York City and serves as an organizational consultant for Fortune 500 companies around the world. Her celebrated TED talks have garnered nearly 20 million views and her international bestseller Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence became a global phenomenon translated into 24 languages. Her newest book is New York Times bestseller The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (HarperCollins).

Perel is also an executive producer and host of the popular Audible original podcast Where Should We Begin?

Praise For…

“Her advice is refreshingly counterintuitive.”

“Mating in Captivity...articulates a poignant and unacknowledged modern crisis for the first time.”
— The Evening Standard (London)

“An elegant sociological study, complete with erudite literary and anthropological references.”
— Daily Telegraph (London)

“A charming blend of wit and wisdom...this book will give you a fresh perspective on long-term love.”
— Gold Coast Bulletin (Australia)

“Well argued points written with considerable eloquence.”
— Jerusalem Post

“This is a brave book...refreshing.”
— The Times Higher Education Supplement

“So honest it hurts.”
— Irish Times

“An excellent book, full of provocative prose and entertaining case illustrations.”
— Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy

Product Details
ISBN: 9780060753641
ISBN-10: 0060753641
Publisher: Harper Paperbacks
Publication Date: October 10th, 2017
Pages: 272
Language: English